[Counseling Love] Do i have to look good to meet a good person

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[Counseling Love] Do i have to look good to meet a good person

 

When I see a relationship, a man usually meets a woman who is pretty. And the other way around here. I guess your appearance is the best. ᅲ

 

That means people who are not good-looking can't meet people who are good-looking. This is so miserable.

 

Sometimes people who don't look good go out with good looking people, but I think people who don't look good should try hard and do really well. Is dating and love really real? Are there any cases where you meet with real love regardless of your condition or appearance? ᅲ

 

 

Anser:

 

You can't say 'by ignoring the reality' when it comes to the nature of love. Reality is like this land we're on. Without the reference point of land and gravity, this world would be a complete mess. It's done under the rules that are laid down under the foundation of reality. Love is no exception. It is easy to create confusion when looking at love too abstractly.

 

Love and love. Don't look at it abstractly. When a man sees a woman, he's attracted to her. You can never ignore the hormonal effects here. You cannot ignore the needs of ethnic reproduction (as well as well). This is very real and natural.

 

A good-looking man and a good-looking woman are usually said to be a good-looking one. It's a good balance, good balance. In the natural ecosystem, research has also shown that the most important thing in the criteria for selecting an opponent when animals or insects mate is the "balance of left and right. It's about choosing a genetically superior partner. It's for better breeding. It's not weird at all, it's just a natural direction of "developmental survival."

 

Can I say that this is sad? What's really sad is someone who doesn't try in his or her position. A person who was born handsomely is simply a person who received a 'her heritage'. However, if you look at the rich people all over the world, there are plenty of cases in which the inheritance was not enough to protect the property and grow the business to later generations. There are many cases where you disappoint and ruin others because you don't know how to date even though your face is fine. It's a little bit of an advantage only when you start.

 

If you do the same thing, it's more advantageous for the person who receives the inheritance. There's a difference in appearance, and if you try the same, the person who looks better will be in the position of the boss. On the other hand, if you develop your inner charm vigorously, you will be able to surpass those with less effort. It's because it's not common. (It's not much more difficult to develop the software than the original hardware, so...)

 

It's too long to say everything, so I'll wrap it up in moderation. Anyway, the body is finite and the mind is infinite. Try to develop an infinite side. Then you can beat the finite side. If you don't try and just 'punish' it is entirely your responsibility, not the world.

 

 

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